Who Would Want To Wait for Sex?

In the old days, the expectations were so very different.

It’s indicated in the old movies.

They fall in love, he doesn’t ask her back to his crib, he asks her to marry him. Bam! The wedding is planned, quick and the whole town waves them off as they happily go to get

married.

Married. Become one. For sure they’ll be there the next day, not ghosting your texts, “How come you haven’t called me in a week? Are you okay?

Are we okay?

Sure, not all marriages were successful. Some were dreadful. But so are those boyfriends.

But the big thing is that 1. sin was not involved 2. blessings were given. 3. Respect of others was intact. 4. Laws protected. 5. The temptation to leave was not as strong. 6. Babies had laws protecting them. 7. Wives and husbands had laws protecting them.

It’s just so smart, wise, practical, good, blessed… to do it the way of the Creator.

He created us, He should know what makes us tick.

I believe that if that one element was taken out of the world… if immorality was stopped by men and women saying, “Okay, we won’t go all the way unless we’ve married our love,” it would end so much heartache.

Children who don’t have both parents. Women who are now called hussies, even if their intention was to be in love, they entered into the sex before they should’ve.

Don’t let an immoral society fool you, trick you, deceive you, corrupt you into thinking it’s ever okay. It’s not, not, not.

Why are we having intercourse anyway? It’s such a serious thing that it makes HUMANS!

IF YOU AREN’T READY TO RAISE A HUMAN, keep your pants on, keep it in your pants, keep in public, keep your legs crossed… stop doing the married thing if you aren’t.

It’s utterly irresponsible of humanity to be immoral. Keep busy and out of each other’s pants until you are married.

How come married people don’t have 100’s of children even though they have sex for 50 years? Because they are responsible.

That puts the onus on irresponsible sinners.

Who would want to wait for sex? Just those who want to be responsible parents, who want to be truthful, trustworthy sex partners who become one spiritually with their lover-wife or lover-husband. Just those who want to avoid STD’s. Just those who want good reputations in society. Just those who want to marry-up their soul with someone they are certain about. Just those who want a better percentage of success in their favor. Just those who want to prevent unplanned pregnancies and hurting a child who was born to unplanned life. For some men, it’s their greatest sadness to not have a dad who they know is in their corner in life that can be so cold and cruel to some.

Believe me, there are enough of us out here that realize that immorality ruins a good reputation. It’s brought down princes, kings, business giants, movie stars, etc.

It used to land them in jail. Who got arrested for adultery? That famous singer, may he rest in peace. Who got kicked out of the castle? Who wanted life to end when she and her boyfriend were flashed on ColdPlay’s kissing cam?

Being looked down on is terrible. If you are repentant and don’t do that, and have mended your ways, it’s important to let people know that.

We need to focus on what God says, not what humans are saying out us, but if we are in that sinfulness, we need to clean up our act. And God looks at the repentant soul and puts the forgiven sins as far as the East is from the West.

Humanity is not so nice because they aren’t God, but they need to let those who turn over a new leaf turn over their new leaf and be nice to their transformed self. Don’t gossip or be cruel to them.

It matters not what humanity says if you are being good. Remember to please God. He’s the one who opens the door to Heaven. Not them.

There is no cruelty in heaven. No one is beating you down with name-calling. No one is nasty. They are all just worshipping their God, like God’s greatest fans. Christianity is God’s fan club.

Who would want to wait to have sex? Um, you’ve waited until the first day you did, so wait a little longer.